Landian with Dani
Landian with Dani is the first flirting-focused podcast in the Philippines, aiming to destigmatize being 'malandi' and promote responsible flirting for self-empowerment. Hosted by DANI B, new episodes are released every Thursday at 5pm.
Episodes
Landi Tip #61: Deinfluencing You From Hookup Culture
Why should you avoid the hookup culture? What are the possible outcomes when you start a connection through hooking up? Why can’t you find love after hooking up? What are the dangers of being delusional over your hookup buddy? What is happening to the dating scene now that hooking up is being normalized? What is the importance of clarity when entering this setup? Why is “masaya lang” being a label
Landi Tip #60: TikTok Love Advices You Should Avoid
What are lies the internet tells us when it comes to dating? How can we make dating fun again? Why is dating fatigue apparent in this generation? Why do we tend to always decode flirting encounters instead of living in the moment and learning in the process? How can we use dating as a way to learn more about ourselves? What are online dating advices we need to debunk to combat dating fatigue?In th
Landi Tip #59: Things Men Will Never Tell You (But We Will) ft ANO NA, BRO??
How do guys flirt nowadays? Uso pa ba ang ligaw? How do men treat women as a friend vs relationship vs hookup? How do these Ano Na Bros podcast hosts, Brent Valdez, Nikki Co, Jay Arcilla, and Dave Bornea, view the current dating scene? How do they view romantic relationships? What are common misconceptions women have towards men and vice versa? How would you know if a guy is treating you seriously
Landi Tip #58: Love Beyond Societal Scripts ft Kylie Celebre and Jan Pablo
How far can risking and taking the chance in pursuing a connection with a stranger go? What pressures come with being an LGBT couple online? How has having a partner who understands gender identity impacted their relationship? Who is Kylie and Jan within and outside of their relationship? How did their public relationship change how some people view queer love? How do they keep the spark alive? Wh
Landi Tip #56: From Flirting Online to Saying Yes at The Altar ft Denisse and Ynna
How did flirting online end up in marriage for this couple? What are the possible challenges that would make your relationship stronger throughout the years? How hard is it going through the journey of always choosing the person you’re with? Who is Denisse and Ynna within and outside of their relationship? How did their public relationship change how some people view queer love? How do they keep t
Landi Tip #55: We’re Both Femme… and It Works ft Ruzz Melendez & Raf Sydiangco
What is the relationship dynamic of a femme gay couple? How did they navigate the early stages of dating as a modern dater vs traditional dater? Who is Ruzz and Raf within and outside of their relationship? What pressures come with being a queer couple online? How did their public relationship change how some people view queer love? How do they keep the spark alive? What are their advices to peopl
Landi Tip #54: Be Desired Without Explaining Yourself ft M1ss Jade So
Who is M1ss Jade So behind drag? How has she built her career? What are the challenges she has encountered in landi and love? What are misconceptions people have about her? How does she channel her confidence on and off stage? How is landi and drag related? How is she able to represent the LGBTQ+ Community?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #53: Follow This Before Raising Your Standards
What if your ‘the one’ already exists… but ikaw yung hindi pa ready? Why should you not solely rely on social media trends on how to date? How can you set realistic expectations when it comes to dating? What should you be self-aware of in building your standards and non-negotiables? Why is it so hard for this generation to actually find love and genuine connections? How will you navigate dating in
Landi Tip #52: A Real Man Plans the Future With You ft Jho Del Pilar
Who is Jho Del Pilar and how was she able to own her power as a woman? What has life been like for her since she was engaged? What is their secret to a long-lasting relationship? How is her platform motivating young women to speak their minds? How is she balancing managing businesses while preparing for her wedding, while thriving in her content creation career? What are the challenges she faces i
Landi Tip #51: Glowing Through A Heartbreak ft Joce Yang
Who is Joce Yang and how was she able to own her power as a woman? What was her journey in building her branding as a makeup and skincare content creator through the years? How has she been moving on and pushing through since her breakup? What is her motivation to continuously be present and creative in social media? How is she valuing girlhood in this phase of her life?In this episode of Landian
Landi Tip #50: Be Unapologetically You ft Rica Salomon
Who is Rica Salomon and how was she able to own her power as a woman? How is her platform uplifting and giving confidence to all women? What has her transition journey made her realize and how did this empower her? What are the challenges of trans women in the current dating arena? And how can one be confident in this day and age where people in social media take their liberty to share their unfil
Landian With Dani: Top 5 Most Viewed Landi Tips
Listen to the top most viewed Landian With Dani episodes since 2023! Share your favorite episode in the comments ❤️Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landian With Dani: Dani B’s Favorite Landi Tips
Let’s look back at the previous episodes! Share your favorite episode in the comments ❤️Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #49: Accomplish This Landi Bucketlist
What are a few first steps on how to flirt in this day and age? How can you challenge yourself to be more confident in flirting? How can a bucketlist be helpful in flirting? How can you be intentional with your landi this 2026? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #48: Cherish Your NBSB Days ft Gianne Hinolan from Medyo Seryosong Podcast
How does landi change when you’re looking for a serious relationship? How is the dating scene like for someone na NBSB in her late 20s? What are the common questions and expectations for someone na NBSB? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know. Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #47: Let Solo Dates Build Your Standards ft Gela Mac Solo Dates Girl
What is the beauty of singlehood? How can one move on from a breakup through focusing on oneself? What are the discoveries you can have when you build a habit of taking yourself out on dates? What are possible activities you can do to spoil yourself? Why is being single a blessing in this generation?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #46: Stop Chasing and Start Being Chosen - Breaking Filipino Dating Stereotypes with Dating Coach Vee
How can a woman flirt boldly while still being respectable? Why should women start flirting now regardless of their age? How can flirting be your power? What are the dating stereotypes in the Philippines? How can a woman be confident in flirting?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.book your own strategic dating coaching session with Dating Coach Vee and use my code “DANI” for 1
Landi Tip #45: Use Dating Apps As Your Landian Training with Joelle from Paano Kung Podcast
Why should you still use dating apps if you fantasize about having an organic encounter? How can online landi be effective? Why shouldn’t you be so against dating apps even if (or most especially if) you’re looking for someone serious? Does true love exist in dating apps? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #44: Plus Pogi Points Kapag Funny ft Melo Aguilar
Is being a funny guy online a red flag or green flag? How can having good humor get girls to slide into your DMs? Is being vulnerable for a guy attractive to women? What are different approaches guys do when flirting with a girl in this generation?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know. Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #43: Signs That He’s In Love ft Will Chua from Will Talks Podcast
Are there men left who yearn and are lover boys in this generation? What are the signs if a guy is really in love and willing to take the effort to get to know you? How would you know if he’s treating the connection as a game or a relationship-building connection?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #42: 25 Landi Lessons From 2025 I'll Carry in 2026
Why am I still single? What are the lessons i've learned from actively dating around in 2025? Did I fall in love? What did I discover about myself when it comes to relationships, love, and landi? Did my standards and preferences change? Did I love or hate myself more in the process of finding a relationship? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you're gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B
Landi Tip #41: Deal With Your Boyfriend’s Girl Best Friend Without Losing Yourself with Josie Dator
Why do conflicts with your bf/gf happen when there’s a best friend involved? What are boundaries one should learn and be aware of when it comes to these situations? How can you possibly navigate this situation? And what are possible healthy ways on how to preserve both friendship and romantic relationship?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #40: Stay Single and Heal After Dating Narcissists & Cheaters with Kiara Yau
What is a possible experience of someone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist and cheater? How can one heal from being in a relationship with one? How can you learn to trust another person again after being traumatized? And why should you not jump into the next connection instantly after being in this type of relationship?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know. Landi R
Landi Tip #39: End the Situationship
What is the root and reason of the existence of situationships? What are the signs that you should end your situationship? What are pros and cons of staying in your current situationship? How long should you stay in that situationship? How can that situationship hinder you from being a better version of yourself? How is that situationship stopping you from meeting “the one”? In this episode of Lan
Landi Tip #38: From Reckless to Responsible: The Landi and Growth Era of Polo Laurel
Join Dani B as she gets to know Polo Laurel, one of her co-daters in TV5’s first ever Pinoy dating reality show, Love On The Clock! What has his journey been from being reckless to responsible? Does he flirt responsibly now? And what are the challenges, mistakes, and realizations he had in the past years to make him who he is today.In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Resp
Landi Tip #37: Single but Trending: Why Jomari Angeles is Still on the Market
Join Dani B as she gets to know Jomari Angeles, one of her co-daters in TV5’s first ever Pinoy dating reality show, Love On The Clock! Why is one of the most followed guys in the Philippines still single? Is it by choice or by circumstance? Single parin nga ba siya? What was his experience like in TV5’s first ever dating reality show, Love On The Clock? What are the struggles he encounters as a si
Landi Tip #36: Exposing Oneself Into the Dating Scene: Faith and Finding Joy in Singlehood with PÜPA
Join Dani B as she gets to know Pupa Dadivas, one of her co-daters in TV5’s first ever Pinoy dating reality show, Love On The Clock! What are possible challenges one can encounter after a breakup? Why should you allow yourself to process things on your own when going through a major change in your life? How can faith change the way you view heartbreaks? Why is it important to be brave in putting y
Landi Tip #35: Your Love Life, Your Choices: Main Character Energy and Writing One’s Own Love Story
How can being delulu in love help you make an actual move towards your crush? How can you flirt while embodying main character energy? How can you take control of your own love story? In this episode of Landian With Dani with special guest, Jayda, you’re gonna know. Landi Responsibly,DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #34: Kung Para Siya Sa’yo, Hindi Kailangan Pilitin
Why should you take pride in the way you love? How can you use your past relationships to navigate your present and future relationships? Why is love easy when it’s right? Why should you not force yourself on someone who isn’t choosing you? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #33: Don’t Be The One That Got The Bare Minimum
What is the bare minimum? Why do we accept the bare minimum? How can we spot the bare minimum? How can you practice dating and flirting while not compromising your standards? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #32: First Dates Series Pt 3 - Build Your Memorable First Impression
What should you do before going on the date? How can you prepare before the date? What should you do and how should you act during the date? How can you leave a good memorable first impression during the first date? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #31: The Psychology of Ghosting
What is ghosting? Why do people ghost? How can you move on from someone who ghosted you? What are communication theories and psychological facts connected to ghosting? Why is ghosting widely used in this generation? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know. Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #28: First Dates Series Pt 1 - Find Your Date Prospects in Specific Places
Where can you find real people to date in real life settings and not through dating apps or your through your friend’s reto? Why is it hard to find people to date nowadays?
In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #27: Flirt and Make Mistakes Now to Lessen Regret in the Future [VIDEO]
Why should you flirt now? How can you flirt and use resources or friends you have at this point in your life to pur yourself out there and explore? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #26: Being Funny and Awkward Can Get You A Pretty Girlfriend
How can someone who is not that much of a head turner get a pretty girlfriend? How can you use your charm, wit, and personality to get the girl? Why should you bank on these traits in this generation’s dating scene?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #25: If They Want To Leave, Be the One To Open The Door
Why should you just let go of people who no longer want to be in your life? How can letting go be liberating? How would you know if a connection is worth it to fight for or not? Where can we draw the line between fighting for the person you love and letting go for your own good? In this episode of Landian With Dani, yourself gonna know.Landi Responsibly,DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #24: Practice How To Flirt
Why should you practice flirting? Who should you practice flirting on? How does flirting improve through practice? What are the benefits of practicing how to landi? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Land Tip #23: Make Him Not Liking You Back An Excuse To Like Yourself More
Why is being rejected so embarrassing? Do you blame yourself and feel more insecure when they don’t reciprocate the feelings? Do you question your value, worth, and your being lovable when the person you like doesn’t like you back? How can you positively switch your mindset to make your rejection a motivation to be the best version of yourself?In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna kno
Landi Tip #22: Handle Rejection Like A Pro
Are you afraid to confess because you’re scared of rejection? How can you move on from being rejected? What should you feel once you get rejected? What are the next steps you should do when your crush rejects you? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #21: LanDILEMMAs (First Date, First Kiss, Ghosting, Opening Up, Online Dating)
In this episode of Landian With Dani, Dani answers lanDILEMMAs Flirty Butterflies (you) sent her! From first dates, first kisses, confused feelings, making moves, to even being vulnerable towards your crush, listen to this episode to know what Dani’s advices are.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #20: Prepare to Meet The Love of Your Life
Why aren’t you in a relationship yet? How come you have so much love to give but have no one to give it to? What should you do to be ready when the one comes? How can you manifest the love of your life? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #19: Realize That He’s Just Not That Into You
Are you ridiculously delulu? Why do we keep ignoring signs that the person just doesn’t like us that much? How do recover from this and prioritize your feelings instead of dwelling on something non-existent? Why should you stop thinking that they’ll reciprocate the feelings? In this episode of Landian With Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B 🦋
Landi Tip #18: Make The First Date Memorable [VIDEO]
Are you about to go on a date? Are you planning to start dating? What should you keep in mind or how can you prepare before you go on the first date with someone? What are the do’s and don’ts during a first date?In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know.
Landi Tip #17: Confidently Ask Them Out on A Date [VIDEO]
Do you want to begin going on dates but don’t know how to start? Do you have someone in mind that you hope you had a chance with but you just can’t seem to find the courage to ask them out? Are you starting to think that it’s time you put yourself out there but just don’t know how to find dates? How can you actually date around in this generation with the current dating arena we’re all in?In this
Landi Tip #16: Date a Retired Cheater [VIDEO]
Why should you consider dating a retired cheater? How can you acknowledge their past and still keep a healthy connection or relationship? What are the possible thoughts running in the heads of people who have been cheated on and who cheated?In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #14: Use Friendship as a Landi Entry Point [VIDEO]
Do you want to flirt with someone you’ve known for a while? Did you suddenly develop feelings for a friend? What if you know this person for a long time already and you just realized now that this person’s attractive? How can you use friendship as an entry point to flirt with your crush?In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #15: Be in A Situationship [VIDEO]
Why should you enter a situationship? What are the benefits of being in one? How can this type of relationship be more convenient most especially in this generation’s approach to dating?In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know. Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #13: Step Out of Your Landi Comfort Zones [VIDEO]
Are you someone who doesn’t meet new people often? Or someone who doesn’t want their meet cute to be through a dating app? Or someone who’s waiting for the love of their life to just magically appear at their doorstep? How can you actually step out of your comfort zones - flirt wise? And why should you PRACTICE flirting if you have the chance?In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know
Landi Tip #12: Don't Be The Parking Lot, Be The Destination [VIDEO]
How can you improve your flirting game this 2025, self-love and self-preservation wise in the current dating landscape of this generation? Were you hurt last year or the past years coz you gave a lot of yourself to someone who didn’t give enough? What’s the meaning of not being the parking lot and aiming to be the destination? In today’s episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Respon
Landi Tip #11: Believe in The Saying "If He Wanted To, He Would" [VIDEO]
Should I believe in this saying or should I always initiate nalang para tuloy tuloy connection namin? Do guys actually make an action or do things just to get the girl or am I just being a hopeless romantic? Why should we keep in mind the saying “if he wanted to, he would”? In this episode of Landian with Dani, you’re gonna know.Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
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Landi Letters to Dani 02: Can Guys Ask "What's your intention?" [VIDEO]
Does this generation actually approach the dating scene differently? Listen to Dani B as she reads your landilemmas and share her insights, experiences, and advices on your landescapades! Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #10: I am a Catch. I am Brave. I am Flirty. Make This Your Landi Mindset! [VIDEO]
"Malandi ako, lalandi ako, lalandi ako responsibly, and lalandi ako para sa sarili ko" is a line that always goes viral whenever I post it online and I decided to actually embody it this year!
In this episode of Landian with Dani, let me share with you how i’m planning to treat my flirting life for the remaining months of the year.
Landi Responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #9: Flirt and Explore The Single Life Before Entering A Commitment [VIDEO]
How and why should you flirt and explore single life before entering a commitment? Why should you stop pressuring yourself to find "the one" and be in a relationship the moment you start having a connection with someone? In this episode, let's talk about the joys you can find and feel while flirting and exploring the single life.Landi responsibly, DANI B.
2023 RELANDIZATIONS (2023 Landi Realizations) [VIDEO]
My 2023 flirting life made me realize five important things. In flirting, it's very essential to (1) Be confident, (2) Not chase, (3) Flirt til you get satisfied, (4) Be responsible, and (5) Flirt for yourself. Listen to this bonus episode to hear an in-depth explanation on how I realized these learnings.
Landi Tip #8: Know Your Strengths and Use It to Your Advantage [VIDEO]
Why do you need to be aware of your strengths, weaknesses, your skills and talents, and what makes you confident and/or anxious whenever you’re flirting? In this episode, let's talk about how you can use your skills and strengths to your advantage when you’re flirting with someone you like.
Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #7: The Situationship Commandments [VIDEO]
Are you seeing someone who gives you mixed signals? Do you only want to talk to this person whenever gusto mo lang ng landi? Or are you on the other end, na feeling mo kinakausap ka lang niya when it’s convenient for them? Is your label no label? This may be called a situationship. If you’re in one, this episode will give you a gist on how you could survive this non-existent relationship without y
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Landi Letters to Dani 01: Halloween Special ft. Your Landi Horror Stories [VIDEO]
What's your worst landi experience na papasa na as a modern-day dating horror story? Listen to Dani B as she reads your horror stories and shares her insights, experiences, and advises on your unfortunate landi experiences. Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #6: Be Delulu. It’s The Best Solulu [VIDEO]
When you’re delulu, you start being blind to the trululu and in flirting, this means you staying happy, confident, and satisfied which somehow makes it the solulu, right? In this episode, let's talk about why it's helpful to be delulu or delusional when you’re flirting with someone you like.
Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #5: Make Sure to Put A Label [VIDEO]
Why do you need to put a label in your relationship and what are the different labels existing nowadays? In this episode, let's talk about the importance of putting a label on your relationship with someone and what the consequences might be if you don't.
There are A LOT of labels and you can even make your own!
Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #4: Learn from your Exes (Part 1: My First Boyfriend)
How can you make the most out of your failed relationship? Why should you remember what happened during the relationship? And how can you move on from it and be better because of it? In this episode, let's talk about why you should revisit your past relationship/s and realize the lessons that these relationships taught you because everything happens for a reason!
Maybe they came into your li
Landi Tip #3: Know Their Flirting Style
Did you know that just like love languages, there are also different ways in which people flirt? I believe that for you to effectively flirt, you have to know what flirting style they prefer. In this episode, let's talk about the Five Flirting Styles by Jeffrey Hall for you guys to understand why, how, and maybe even for what reasons people flirt! Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #2: Give Them the Special Treatment
How would you let them know that you like them in the first place? What’s the first step para magpapansin? In this episode, let's talk about one of the first steps to letting your crush know you like them! Landi responsibly, DANI B.
Landi Tip #1: Flirt with Yourself First!
How would you be confident in flirting with others if you still aren’t confident with how you act and how you look? In this episode, let's talk about the significance of self-confidence in effective flirting. Flirt one step at a time lang, guys! Landi responsibly, DANI B.
My ReLANDIzation
Kailan ba narealize ni Dani B na malandi siya? In this pilot episode, let me tell you the story of the moment I realized na malandi ako a.k.a. my "reLANDIzation" (landi realization)! Let's make this a thing, yeah?
Hey my butterflies! Welcome to Landian with Dani, a podcast where I share more tips on how to flirt beyond my viral TikTok Landi Tips as I tell you the stories behind each
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